What is a Swinger? Or better yet what is the Lifestyle and how do Swingers fit in?

Most people who are unaware of the lifestyle have the vision of the old days where swingers would show up at a house and throw their keys into a bowl to see who went with who or some other out to lunch misguided understanding of what it was all about. In reality that was rarely the case and would have actually been a theme party LOL.

At ITL we believe in and promote the Lifestyle; but what is the lifestyle? It is a new way of thinking, an open honest dialog with you and your partner... or better yet it is freedom to express yourself sexually without the structure of what is deemed "normal". Lifestyle people are the new age swingers; we are warm, welcoming and embrace life. We seek fun out and fun finds us and we never have an excuse as to why we aren't able to attend. People notice us because we aren't afraid to be noticed - we will make eye contact in the line ups of the bar or coffee shop! But further than all of that we get it; the swingers today are in touch and understand what honesty and communication is for and we know how to use it!

So congratulation for taking the step into a better way of life and a better experience with your partner! Be open, be honest and don't be afraid to express yourself... really what is the worst that can happen, being told no?

Now, come on in and join the site to learn how you can improve your relationship!